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Is OPD-OTHER people's DRAMA: Getting in your way of finding love?

OPD?  Other People's Drama...Often we get side swiped by OPD. Have you  ever done this before? Have you allowed yourself to get caught up in someone elses unresolved issues?  Have awakened and noticed that you somehow got swept up in someone elses wind storm and you are ignoring your own needs and obligations?

Are you rescuing the Damsels in Distress over and over?  Is your Prince one of possibility but not enough actions?  Are you helping him/her get his dreams off the ground but not investing enough in your own?

D-Don't Date People with Divorce Drama, and more

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Relationship Expert Susan Bradley on Drama Free Relationships
D-R-A-M-A d. Say no to Divorce Drama R: No Reprobates A: No active Addiction Issues M: Say no to Married People A: Don't Date people with Anger Management Challenges.

DRAMA FREE? NOT! Trust in God, and tie up your Camels

On New Years Day, I get a text.  "Hi, I really need a friend right now. She took off with the bill money, all of my money, and left me high and dry.  I'm at my wits end and I can't stop crying and I don't what to do. I'm alone with nothing, no food. I really want to die."

Tom had broken up with Elaine over a month ago.  They agreed to live together until February for financial reasons plus Tom had really grown fond of her girls.

But today took the cake.  He gave her his entire paycheck to deposit and pay the bills.

What is your Drama Quotient? or Threshold?

Does this remind you of anyone or anything?I am noticing that how someone reacts to stress in their daily life sets up what I am calling a DRAMA Quotient or a THRESHOLD for Drama.  Some people are naturally more excitable than others.  Others are good at putting a "damper" on things.  Some are drama magnets who always seem to be in the wrong place at the wrong time.  I came by drama naturally in my family.

In my house growing up...my father would blow up and create a scene.  Get really really loud and obstinate.

YES, you REALLY CAN have a DRAMA-FREE LOVE-Life

You really can have a DRAMA-FREE LOVE LIFE. 

You can take charge of your life by deciding ahead of time how YOU personally will react to any drama that shows up.  You can be a DRAMA magnet or a Drama repeller. 

If something happens ONCE to a person, you can call it an accident but when it happens repeatedly, one must start wondering...what is this person doing to DRAW like a magnet similar circumstances to their life.

Some people are ADDICTED to DRAMA.
A friend of mine asked: I want a drama-free relationship.
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