YES, you REALLY CAN have a DRAMA-FREE LOVE-Life

You really can have a DRAMA-FREE LOVE LIFE.

You can take charge of your life by deciding ahead of time how YOU personally will react to any drama that shows up. You can be a DRAMA magnet or a Drama repeller.

If something happens ONCE to a person, you can call it an accident but when it happens repeatedly, one must start wondering...what is this person doing to DRAW like a magnet similar circumstances to their life.

Some people are ADDICTED to DRAMA.

A friend of mine asked: I want a drama-free relationship. How can I get that?

The first step is honestly deciding that you want that. And the second step is having your partner also choose that path. The 3rd is starting to notice what negative drama looks like and what normal drama or normal reactions are to life's events.

W Mitchell always says: It's not what happens to you but what you do about it that matters the most. (Look his story up. It's quite amazing.)

So when my vintage authentic Chinese Junk (Fishing Boat) sunk in it's berth this week, I could choose to be melodramatic about it and cry and make a scene or I could choose to be an example of being grateful it wasn't worse. I at least, still had a boat, it was low tide, visibility was perfect, the lines were still intact holding the boat in place. It only took 3 hours for the rescue. There was no fuel on board so no hazmat procedures to follow. I did allow myself to have some woe is me feelings later but no drama.

I didn't swear, or jump up and down or pull my hair out. I started counting my blessings. Honestly this drama free way of living is something that I've been working on for quite a few years. And it even begins with our choices. If you come from a family of alcoholics and you keep choosing relationships with addictions then you are ASKING for more drama. You are placing an order with the Universe. Yes, I want more drama. Please give me more drama.

If you keep on choosing men and women "with potential" who never pan out in love, you are ASKING for negative drama. So what is it about you that might need to shift in order to realize that you can actually attract and keep someone who not only has potential but actually EXPRESSES it in life?

Most DRAMA is negative. What is drama? Any negative complaining or otherwise unnecessary suffering in a relationship. On the drama scale anything above a 5 is so uncool. Drama? Like when the woman stomps off in public giving her man the finger. Or when he's had too much to drink and yells obscenities in public. When she shows her jealousy and throws a drink in his face or vice versa.

Drama just piles on suffering in all forms.

There are 10 different types of DRAMA.

1. Family Drama

2. Addiction Drama

3. Health Drama

4. Relationship Drama

5. Financial Drama

6. Childhood Drama

7. Disaster Drama

8. Mental Health Drama

9. Death Drama

10. Career Drama

Our individual reaction to any of the above dramas distinguishes the DRAMA FACTOR in our lives. How do you react to drama? What is your initial reaction? How does your family tend to deal with drama? If you came from a family with a large drama factor then you will have one of a few reactions. A. You run away from it. B. You embrace it.

C. You create it. D. You pretend it's not there. E. You make it worse.

I have to go to an appt now but this post will continue to unfold and explore information about drama. Meanwhile, if you are in the San Francisco area Jan 6th, I am speaking at a big Singles Convention at 7pm Location: Serverinos Restaurant on the water, (in Tiburon) for American Singles

THE TOPIC IS: Finding DRAMA-FREE LOVE in 2012! Come out and play with us and make a commitment to yourself to have DRAMA FREE LOVE!