 Do you want to create more MAGIC in your LOVE LIFE? Are you mumbling to yourself...."What Love Life?"Getting out of your comfort zone is EXCITING and SCARY. But, it's honestly the ONLY way to get more out of your life. What are you waiting for? You can create anything you want in life. I know this for a fact because I used to be a scared, depressed, divorced, broke single mom who had been married to an alcoholic abusive man. I escaped all of that drama to create a dream life. |
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Have you noticed how quickly the years are going by and you still go to
parties alone, spend holidays alone? Every year it's another hopeful
year until once again you don't have your real love to celebrate what
some call National Singles Awareness Day! Valentines Day. After years
of coaching singles who've said on the outside that
they really really want a relationship, I identified two groups of
people.
OPD? Other People's Drama...Often we get side swiped by OPD. Have you ever done this before? Have you allowed yourself to get caught up in someone elses unresolved issues? Have awakened and noticed that you somehow got swept up in someone elses wind storm and you are ignoring your own needs and obligations?
Are you rescuing the Damsels in Distress over and over? Is your Prince one of possibility but not enough actions? Are you helping him/her get his dreams off the ground but not investing enough in your own?
On New Years Day, I get a text. "Hi, I really need a friend right now. She took off with the bill money, all of my money, and left me high and dry. I'm at my wits end and I can't stop crying and I don't what to do. I'm alone with nothing, no food. I really want to die."
I am noticing that how someone reacts to stress in their daily life sets up what I am calling a DRAMA Quotient or a THRESHOLD for Drama. Some people are naturally more excitable than others. Others are good at putting a "damper" on things. Some are drama magnets who always seem to be in the wrong place at the wrong time. I came by drama naturally in my family.
I challenge every one of you to go DEEPER in your experience of Love and Loving. Al and I keep getting even better at being wonderful partners for each other. It's been a combination of shared experiences, both good and bad. Each obstacle we've overcome together, united against the challenge has knitted our relationship closer. Share here...your own stories of what has brought your own relationships closer. We've been taking personal growth seminars together, with rope course challenges, trust falls, and all.